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Dissociation Episodes

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Jan. 22, 2026

When Coherence Protects Too Much: Adaptive Dissociation, Self-Sealing, and Double-Loop Learning

We engage in a profound conversation with Mike Cuevas, who shares his lived experience with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). We delve into the concept of coherence and its critical role in the context of DID, emphasizing that coherence is not merely a goal but an embodiment within the therapeutic process.
Guest: Mike Cuevas
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Jan. 8, 2026

When Calm Is Over-Performance: Adaptive Dissociation, Over-Resourcing, and the Misidentification of Regulation

In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the concept of containment and its role in emotional regulation with breathwork facilitator D' Layne Benson. Together, they explore how emotional bypassing and avoidance can hinder our ability to process and integrate experiences, leading to a disconnection from vital signals.
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Jan. 5, 2024

From Inner Voice to Inner Peace: The Power of Psychological Distance in Emotional Regulation

In this enlightening episode of The Light Inside, we unravel the concept of emotional uncoupling and the importance of establishing a healthy psychological distance to better understand and process our emotions. Our guest, Veronica Rottman, founder of Waking Womb, shared her expertise on somatic-based healing and the role of the nervous system in emotional regulation. We began by discussing the challenges we face when our emotions become entangled with our experiences, leading to a web of compl...
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April 11, 2023

Experiential Rationalization: Why We Justify Our Decisions & Actions Based On Past Experiences

In this episode, Clarissa, a 36 year old hairdresser from a small Midwestern town, struggles to find her place in the world amidst her family's criticism and judgements while navigating the power dynamics of experiential rationalization. Self-doubt. We often wear her blanket of insecurity like a well-worn and bloodied shield. Her insidious torment, a thunderous echoing in our ears. You have probably heard them - the millions of questions that sometimes filter through our mental framing as we co...
Guest: Kate Dudzik