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Episodes

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Dec. 8, 2023

Exploring Anhedonia: The Search for Joy and Connection

In this podcast episode, host Jeffrey Besecker reflects on the year 2023 and the deep exploration of the human experience that has taken place. The episode acknowledges that while the holiday season can be joyful for many, it can also be a time of challenge and loneliness. The top downloaded episode of the year is revisited, delving into the topic of anhedonia, a condition that robs individuals of joy and leaves them feeling empty. The episode concludes with warm wishes for the holiday season a...
Guest: Tanith Carey
176
Dec. 1, 2023

Suggestibility: How Subconscious Scripts Control The Stories We Tell Ourselves About Life

In the podcast episode titled "The Light Inside," host Jeffrey Besecker explores the concept of subconscious scripts and their profound impact on our perspectives and narratives. He invites guest Gareth Gwynne, who specializes in self-realization techniques and societal reconciliation, to delve into the intricacies of these scripts and how they shape our stories. Certain truths are not always self-evident, with our stories and narratives impacting us in profound ways beyond our common understan...
Guest: Gareth Gwyn
175
Nov. 17, 2023

Unmasking the Superiority Complex: The Effects of Anxious Insecurity

The podcast explores the concept of anxious insecurity and its various effects. The host, Jeffrey Besecker discusses how anxious insecurity leads to a constant battle between one's self-concept and true identity, resulting in a mask that hides one's true brilliance. The guest, J. Stamatelos provides insights into the search for love and belonging in the context of anxious insecurity. The conversation highlights the importance of becoming one's own best ally and offers strategies for developing a...
Guest: J. Stamatelos
174
Nov. 10, 2023

Neuroception: How the Autonomic Nervous System Keeps Us Regulated with John Eli Garay

In this episode, the host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the topic of pain and suffering and how they contribute to personal growth. It challenges the belief that growth can only occur through pain and discomfort, suggesting that growth can also happen in states free of suffering. The guest, John Eli Garay, shares insights on how to navigate the complexities of the autonomic nervous system and achieve emotional self-regulation. John offers guidance on understanding and navigating the autonomic la...
173
Nov. 3, 2023

Overcoming Overwhelm: Exploring the Fear of Intimacy and Vulnerability in Our Relationships with Kent Weishaus

In this episode, the podcast explores the role of subconscious scripts and self-sabotaging behaviors in intimate relationships. It discusses how deep-seated fears of vulnerability can influence our behavior and push us to protect ourselves from potential emotional pain. The episode features a conversation with psychotherapist Kent Weishaus, who provides valuable insights on navigating these dynamics in intimate relationships and throughout our social interactions. The podcast highlights the co...
Guest: Kent Weishaus
172
Oct. 27, 2023

Subconscious Scripts: Exploring the Haunting Power of Our Stories with Dee Miceli

In this podcast, host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the nature of subconscious scripts and how they shape our beliefs and behaviors. He explores the idea that our stories and experiences define us, often leading us to blindly follow their lead. He questions the existence of the self and examines the role of conscious and subconscious influences in our lives. The podcast discusses the impact of subconscious scripts on our decision-making and actions. It highlights how these scripts, formed during...
Guest: Denise Miceli
170
Oct. 18, 2023

Moving on from Narcissistic Abuse: Letting Go and Finding Healing with Shannon Petrovich

In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores the concept of moving on from narcissistic abuse. He discusses the tendency to obsessively ruminate on the experience and seek revenge, rather than focusing on letting go and finding healing. Joining Jeffrey is clinical therapist Shannon Petrovich, author of "Out of the Fog and Into the Clear," who shares insights on emotional surgency and its role in breaking free from toxic relationships. Tune in to discover how to transcend ...
169
Oct. 13, 2023

The Power of Slowing Down: Taking Time for Careful Consideration with Kathy Hadizadeh

In this episode, Jeffrey Besecker and Kathy Hadizadeh delve into the concept of action bias, heuristics, and their effect on decision-making. They discuss the importance of ego development, moving away from binary thinking, and the value of "pause to rise." They also explore the role of unitive ego development in personal growth, how values and psychological constructs influence decisions, and share personal experiences with bias. The episode concludes with a focus on the importance of self-r...
168
Oct. 5, 2023

Running in Circles: How Diffusing Subconscious Patterns Frees Us From Rumination and Negative Belief Systems with Erin Mac

In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores the complexities of circular thinking and rumination with Executive Coach Erin Mac. They discuss how these thought patterns can lead to heightened stress and anxiety levels, hinder decision-making, and disrupt mental and physical well-being. The episode highlights the limitations of the label "overthinking" and delves into the nuanced factors that contribute to circular thinking and rumination. Tune in for a fascinating discus...
Guest: Erin Mac
167
Sept. 29, 2023

Humor’s Bad Reputation: The Role Comedy Plays Both in Social Bonding and Emotional Coping with Alfie Noakes

In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores the power of humor. He discusses how humor can serve as a life raft in difficult times, lighten the load during troubled times, and even procrastinate from doing actual work. Jeffrey emphasizes that humor is like seasoning for the soul, adding that even a bad joke can make us smile. However, he also acknowledges that there is a darker shade to humor, one that creates derision and contempt. To further explore this topic, Jeffr...
Guest: Alfie Noakes
166
Sept. 22, 2023

The Transformative Potential of Understanding Attachment Styles

In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores the importance of healthy connections in our lives. He delves into the spiritual journey of forming these connections and the mental obstacles that can hinder them. By examining the influence of early childhood associations and conditioning, Jeffrey and his guests shed light on how they shape our perceptions of love, trust, and emotional security. Additionally, he highlights the wisdom of a monk and a retired neurosurgeon in t...
164
Sept. 8, 2023

The Cognitive Bias of Declinism: Chasing Truth in a Changing World

In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores the concept of declinism and its impact on our ability to find solutions to the global crises we face.Author Jeff Hardy, joins us to discuss how the looming threat of the sixth human mass extinction and the decline of our planet, can create challenges when discerning the truth amidst doom and gloom. Hardy delves into the idea of declinism as a cognitive bias that hinders our ability to take thoughtful action and embrace change....
Guest: Jeff Hardy
163
Aug. 30, 2023

How Unconscious Psychological Factors Contribute to Healthy Weight Regulation with Cody Golman

In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores the psychology behind body weight regulation. He delves into various factors such as energetic intake and expenditure, the role of hormones, and the influence of genetics on body weight. Dr. Cody Goldman, a quantum life and health coach, joins the discussion to explain how to effectively manage weight and maintain daily routines. By incorporating uplifting psychological principles and natural methods, listeners can discover saf...
Guest: Cody Golman
162
Aug. 25, 2023

The Uncharted Waters: Understanding the Mental and Emotional Storm of Cancer

On this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores the labyrinthian experience of battling cancer. With over 19.3 million people globally uttering the phrase "It's cancer" each year, the emotional roller coaster of uncertainty becomes all too real. The episode delves into the suspension of time, where days blend into nights and hopes cling to fragile medical prognosis. It examines how the journey through cancer treatment is not just a clash with a physical ailment, but also a c...
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Aug. 10, 2023

Empty: How Anhedonia Steals Our Light with Tanith Carey

In this opening episode of Season 5 of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker and guest Tanith Carey explores the topic of emptiness and anhedonia, the silent thief of joy. Carey describes the experience of waking up to a world devoid of colors and melodies, where happiness and the ability to feel anything have been replaced by an overwhelming sense of emptiness. Jeffrey and Tanith delve into the ache and constant dull pain that accompanies anhedonia, as well as the numbing of the senses. Des...
Guest: Tanith Carey