Coddiwomple: to travel purposefully toward an as-yet-unknown destination. Our minds, those sometimes crafty machines, are continually constructing their own quirky narratives—almost like a spontaneous improv show—to fill in the …
The following provides a scientific breakdown offering a modern perspective on the neoclassical theory of ego development. In this model, the psyche and its supporting "ego processes" are not viewed as disposable byproducts of the self. Instead, the…
What if the key to innovative solutions wasn’t in thinking smarter, and instead, hinged on ditching our identity hang-ups and embracing all the seemingly dumb ideas we often have? In a world obsessed with high-achievement, optimization,…
Ever notice how we’re all so eager to embrace vulnerability, yet somehow end up shooting the messenger before any real change takes place? It’s as if our brains are wired for a quirky kind of self-sabotage—one moment we’re ap…
Have you ever wondered if losing the self might be the key to truly finding it? This perspective redefines the psyche’s dissolution not as self-loss but as a gateway to a larger, interconnected ‘subset’ of identities—a proce…
In today’s fast-evolving therapeutic landscape, clinical practitioners and transformation coaches are increasingly called upon to guide clients through the labyrinth of unresolved psychological data. We often feel overwhelmed by the relentles…
Looking at the following image—what do you ‘see’? At first glance, one might surmise how this surrealist composition, influenced by mid-century abstract surrealism, evokes themes of existentialism, identity loss, and psychological…
Trust is an affair of degrees—with many factors influencing it. Take Bob-a reliable and consistent content creator—with a stellar reputation and a strong desire to serve the best in others. - Bob has been a creator for eight years. In…
Navigating the Emotional Roots of "Nice Guy Syndrome" We all know someone like Jake. The guy who is always there for others, who never seems to say "no," who bends over backward to keep the peace. On the surface, Jake is a great friend, a supportiv…
Judgement is an essential fact of human life—before you judge that statement—hear me out. How can we differentiate between the kind of judgement that helps us make informed decisions and grow, versus the kind that limits understan…
What If Our Perception of Pain Largely Exists in Our Minds? What if much of our pain wasn’t just a result of physical damage but rather a deeply ingrained mental and emotional pattern? What if the suffering we associate with chronic pain is n…
Predictions: in many regards, they drive life, shape our outlook—and spur us towards action. As humans, we constantly make predictions, relying on judgment and discernment to navigate daily life. Whether forecasting the weather, analyzing st…
We often hear that when it comes to the conditions of growth—mindset matters. Yet, have you ever considered to what extent? Dr. Judson Brewer, is an addiction psychiatrist and author of the book Unwinding Anxiety. He suggests we can…
All of life is a stage—and we are merely performers. What if the very perfectionism we believe drives our success is the hidden force holding us back from true growth and mastery? Perfectionism, particularly in its chronic form, often manifes…
The fifty trillion dollar question—why do we seek such insecure notions as psychological certainty when writing these narratives? Let’s break it down: The search for an "absolute" sense of identity superiority often arises from a need …
“This overview highlights academic and therapeutic interests in context-based authenticity, cultural influences, and advanced psychological theories like predictive processing.” Imagine an individual navigating the labyrinth of their id…
"What is authentically unique to each human?" This question becomes crucial when we recognize that a diverse range of external factors—such as culture, upbringing, societal influences, and even technology—are inextricabl…
People make 35,000 decisions a day. Maybe you’ve found yourself wondering — why are some of them so inherently bad? Ever find yourself fiercely holding onto a belief—even when the facts say otherwise, or when logic doesn't quite a…
Introduction: The Identity Shift in Retirement Retirement represents a transformative stage in life, often filled with both excitement and uncertainty. For many, this transition prompts an identity shift, as they leave behind careers that have been…
*A deep dive into the latest episode of "Breaking the Cycle: Emotional Misattribution and the Hidden Patterns of Self-Sabotage with Denise Micelli" We often hear the advice "trust your gut," but what happens when our gut is speaking in tongues infl…
The concept that “vibrational frequencies” impact human health, emotions, and personal growth has gained popularity within holistic wellness practices. Proponents often assert that "raising" a speculative'summed frequency’ through …
How do tertiary and recursive behavior patterns—along with their relationship to primary, secondary, and ancillary patterns—shape the ways unresolved psychological data and suppressed emotional interactions are re-enacted, maintained, or…
So, you’ve probably heard the classic line: “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” Or maybe it’s “What you read is who you become,” or even the social media favorite, “Your vi…
We’ve all heard the advice: “Just change your mindset,” or “Believe in yourself.” These ideas, while well-meaning, often scratch the surface of the deeper emotional, mental, and somatic processes that truly shape our li…