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July 9, 2024

The Essential Role of Unitive Ego Development in Emotional Regulation and Personal Growth

Have you ever felt the weight of an unspoken truth, heavy on your chest, yearning to be expressed? Or perhaps you've witnessed the profound impact of a hard truth, delivered with compassion and wisdom? As we navigate the complex landscape of human…

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July 7, 2024

Understanding Humanity through Vibrational Frequencies: Insights from Quanta and Fields

You may have frequently heard that everything we encounter and perceive exists in the form of energy. Einstein and Tesla both emphasized that everything can be understood in terms of energy, frequency, and vibration. But have you ever considered ho…

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July 6, 2024

Do We Create Drama Consciously or Unconsciously to Fulfill Our Insecure and Maladaptive Needs?

In our daily lives, we often encounter situations filled with drama, whether in personal relationships, workplaces, or social interactions.   But have you ever wondered if this drama is something we create consciously or unconsciously? &…

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June 27, 2024

The State of Things: How to More Effectively Leverage the Benefits of Status Quos

We often inaccurately think of status quo’s as a binary, either or situations. Basing our assessments in right, or wrong. However, within any given circumstance or system, many status quo tend to coexist, side-by-side in unity.   So it …

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June 19, 2024

Overcoming Maladaptive Patterns: Breaking Free from the Karpman Drama Triangle

Do we ‘attract’ similar situations, or merely ‘notice’ them with a higher rate of occurrence because we are projecting our assumptive beliefs? We don't necessarily attract certain characteristics and traits in others; ra…

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June 9, 2024

The Shackles of Belief: Exploring the Limiting Factors of Thought Structures

The question might come to mind, when is a belief, factually and objectively limiting?  Imagine a world where the boundaries of our potential are defined not by our abilities, but by the invisible chains of cultural programming and social stig…

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May 29, 2024

The Influential Role of Semantic Analysis in Limiting Beliefs

There are times when people hold vehemently to their beliefs, even when confronted with evidence that proves their beliefs are false. We’ve all witnessed the age-old argument; you say to-MAY-to, I say to-MAH-to.   For example, someone c…

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May 6, 2024

Deconstructing Perceptual Filters: The Role of Parataxic Distortions in Subjective Judgments

Our perspectives on life and social interactions are significantly shaped by the filters and biases we employ, which influence how we interpret events, perceive others, and navigate relationships.   The paradoxical enigmas of our ego processe…

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April 23, 2024

Embracing Fluidity: Exploring the Interplay of Perception, Bias, and Evolution in Self-Construction

Throughout life, we often stop to ponder how we measure up. Although this can be a valuable tool for growth, it’s not always an accurate assessment, and rather than being objective, we sometimes lean into distorted filters and subjective bias…

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April 12, 2024

Authentically Inauthentic: Alex and their Story of Self

Alex had always prided themselves on being what they believed to be an authentic, independent thinker—someone who formed their own beliefs and opinions, unbeholden to societal pressures or cultural conditioning. But lately, a nagging sense of …

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Feb. 15, 2024

The Kahu's Journey: Embracing Vulnerability, Guiding with Reverence, and Preserving Wisdom for Generations

Allegorically, holding space for each other and walking each other home is an elemental part of life. We are all treading the waters of that ever-present journey of curiosity and discovery that is our human evolution.   The Kahu shows us the…

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Jan. 24, 2024

Bikeshedding: What Parkinson’s Law of Triviality Teaches Us About Where We Place Our Focus

Ever find yourself caught in the web of bikeshedding? 🚲   Bikeshedding, also known as Parkinson’s law of triviality, describes our tendency to devote a disproportionate amount of our time to menial and trivial matters while leaving im…

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Dec. 28, 2023

The Backfire Effect: How More Effective Goal-tending Empowers Us for a Winning New Year

It happens. We convince ourselves we need more goals to bring us closer to what we perceive as a successful series of better outcomes. Whenever we set goals, regardless of when they occur, do we spend much time considering why we feel motivated or …

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Oct. 27, 2023

The Illusion of a Self

We are taught that the self is some sort of constructed home, yet we exist energetically everywhere.We believe the self is a place, something to come and go within.Yet we are everywhere, and in everything.To the point that we are petrified by the no…

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Oct. 12, 2023

The Power of Slowing Down: Taking Time for Careful Consideration

Hey there, fellow adventurers on the bumpy road of life! Today, we're diving headfirst into the stormy seas of anticipatory anxiety. Yep, that's right, that delightful knot-in-the-stomach feeling we get when we’re about to make a big decision …

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Sept. 2, 2023

Balancing the Ego: A Journey to Spiritual Enlightenment and Personal Fulfillment

The ego serves an essential function of our overall health and wellbeing. Although we are often conditioned to only see the more adverse aspects of our ego development, we can also see the inherent benefit we gain from the positive and beneficial f…

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Aug. 31, 2023

Breaking Free from Indifference: Uncover Your True Strength

Hello, courageous souls!   Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery, understanding, and growth? Let's delve into the intricate layers of indifference, a subtle yet powerful coping mechanism that often shields us from our deepest…

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July 20, 2023

A Conspiracy of Truths: The Great Comfort Zone Fallacy

Perhaps an enormous conspiracy of truths exists - one we often believe is self-evident. After all, we tend to hold fast to self-evident truths with a relentless fervor.    … And so it begins.   The spark of energetic …

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July 14, 2023

Unity of Opposites: How both things can also be true?

In our daily lives, we often encounter situations where opposing perspectives or contradictory information can be valid in different contexts or from different points of view. This can manifest in various domains such as politics, ethics, and even p…

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June 21, 2023

Beautifully human: The importance of self-acceptance

Both healthy and unhealthy levels of acceptance are significantly important to all of us. Considering these variables and being open to constructive feedback allows us to form healthier self-concepts.   I wanted to take a moment to remind you…

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June 20, 2023

Trials, tribulations, and tears: My ever-evolving journey with healthy ego development by Anna G.

This is my story… (isn’t that how it always goes?) Growing up, there were times when I wasn't the most confident person. In fact, I often found myself plagued by anxiety, fear, and uncertainty. For instance, when I was younger, I woul…

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June 8, 2023

Do we have to experience challenge and adversity in order to grow?

Healthy eustress is an inevitable occurrence throughout life. Yet, as humans, we are often socially programmed to believe that change and evolution; our personal grow - must be uncomfortable in order to be beneficial. The illusory truth effect, als…

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June 1, 2023

Understanding Ego In The New Paradigm

Ego is often a very vague and foreign concept for many people. It is often difficult to identify one's own ego, as it is a complex and ever-changing structure. It is often seen as a force that drives people to act in certain ways, but it is difficul…

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May 17, 2023

Why it's healthy to love 'Things'.

In the tapestry of our lives, there are threads woven with profound meaning—threads that connect us to what we hold dear, to the memories that shape us, and to the people who mean the most. These threads often take the form of cherished posses…

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